Backyard BBQ Season Is Here: 8 Easy Tips for Hosting the Ultimate Summer Party on the North Shore

Summer on the North Shore brings a sense of ease that’s hard to beat. Flip-flops are the footwear of choice, drinks are served chilled, and weekends are often filled with one thing: backyard BBQs.

If you’re planning to host one this season, you don’t need a sprawling yard, designer furniture, or top-tier grilling skills. What you really need is delicious food, a few comfortable spots to sit, and an atmosphere that encourages your friends to stick around.

Here are 8 straightforward tips to help you throw a BBQ your friends will remember—without adding unnecessary stress to your day.

1. Set the mood, not a theme

There’s no need to go overboard with decorations. String lights can create a cozy ambiance, and a playlist featuring classic rock, reggae, or any tunes that scream summer will set the right tone. As the sun sets, light a few candles or lanterns to keep the vibe warm and inviting.

Bonus tip: If you enjoy music, invite your guests to contribute their favorite summer songs to the playlist ahead of time. Everyone loves hearing a tune that resonates with them.

2. Keep the menu simple

You don’t need to go gourmet to impress. Stick with a few classic staples—burgers, hot dogs, grilled veggies, and perhaps some chicken or ribs. A couple of solid side dishes, like pasta salad, watermelon slices, or corn on the cob, will do the trick. Consider setting up DIY food stations where guests can customize their meals—think taco bar, pasta bar, or slider bar. And don’t forget to check for any food allergies or dietary restrictions among your guests.

Pro tip: Choose items you can prep in advance so you’re not juggling too many tasks when guests arrive.

3. Do the prep before people arrive

If you find yourself constantly running back to the kitchen or flipping burgers while everyone else is enjoying the party, you’re not really hosting—you’re just working. Get ahead by chopping veggies, seasoning meat, and setting up a self-serve drink station before the first knock at the door. This way, you can relax and enjoy the gathering too.

4. You don’t need matching patio furniture

Don’t stress if your outdoor seating doesn’t look like it belongs in a magazine. Mix and match chairs, throw down a few picnic blankets, or even bring out indoor stools or benches if needed. All your guests need is a comfortable place to sit and chat while they enjoy their food.

Also, ensure there’s at least one shady spot if it’s a hot day. If you don’t have any trees for shade, umbrellas or pop-up tents can make a significant difference in keeping everyone cool.

5. Think about what the kids (and grown-ups) will do

If families are attending, set out a few simple games—think volleyball, sidewalk chalk, or a sprinkler for the kids to run through. For the adults, lawn games like bocce or giant Jenga are always a hit. And who can resist s’mores over a fire pit? It’s a classic that never fails to please.

You don’t need a strict agenda, but having activities available keeps the energy up and gives everyone a reason to linger a little longer.

6. Plan ahead for bugs

Nothing can ruin a backyard hangout faster than mosquitoes. Light a few citronella candles, have bug spray on hand, and keep food covered when it’s out on the table. A small fan near the dining area can help too—bugs tend to avoid wind, and your guests will appreciate the refreshing breeze.

7. Don’t worry about decorations

Seriously, decorations aren’t necessary. A clean yard, some colorful napkins or paper plates, and a few fresh flowers in jars are more than enough. Nobody’s judging your hosting skills; they’re just happy to be invited.

8. Send people off with a little something (if you want to)

This is totally optional, but it’s always a nice touch: send your guests home with a small snack, drink, or leftover treat. It doesn’t have to be elaborate—just a slice of pie wrapped in foil or a to-go cup of lemonade is a thoughtful way to say thanks for coming.

Bottom line? Keep it easy.

The best backyard BBQs aren’t about perfection—they’re about creating a comfortable environment where everyone can laugh, enjoy seconds, and linger long after the sun sets.

So if you’re hosting this summer, don’t stress about making everything picture-perfect. Focus on keeping it relaxed, a little messy, and full of fun.